Ok, so It is Christmas and I have so much to be thankful for, but, I have the blues.
in recent months finances have been tapped out due to unforeseeable circumstances and I am not able to participate in the capitalistic retail extravaganza we call Christmas.
My kids are are getting very little this year, but are fine with it. I am very proud of them. On the other end of this spectrum is my self portrait staring me in the face saying if only you were rich. My mind is filled with the desire to do so much for my family, especially at this time of year,but sadly the funds just aren't there.
If I was wealthy though I would not know the depth of my children's character. This knowledge is invaluable and has provided me with a wealth that many parents never get to realize. So although I am having a some-what blue Christmas, I am also celebrating a couple of births not usually associated with the holiday. One of my children gave me a card that says its not about the presents or the money or the food, It is about the love. She then wrote in her own part thanking my wife and I for teaching her that.
There really is wealth far greater than money and diamonds and gold. God has truly blessed us with these fine children, and I am eternally grateful for them all.
Thursday, December 25, 2008
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3 comments:
oh what your daughter has written in that card is the best present one can get... and you're so rich for having such a family...
i understand your feelings... our economical status too had lots of ups and downs and i know what a father feels at these times like Christmas (in our country Norooz)... but children mostly cherish the time their parents spend with them...
we have a 9-year-old daughter and her happiest times are when she's with us... playing... going to park or just doing homework...
think you are giving the best thing to your childern: you've taught them what love is...
dear new friend, James... thanks a lot for visiting my blog... your comments really warmed my heart... it's beautiful to see people can be so understanding...
oh i forgot to say Happy Christmas to you and your family...
and...
i really love what you've written in your profile... in Iran we have a proverb saying that "one single hand has got no sound" but i have never believed in it and all my life have tried to do my 1-person share to make my world a better place...
and regarding board games, i love chess!(the poll was closed)
:)
may all you days be filled with love and happiness...
I love you! I am blessed to have you (:
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